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What Does It Mean To Call Yourself Filipino, If You Can't Speak The Language?

by Shanice Espiritu July 04, 2018 3 Comments

What Does It Mean To Call Yourself Filipino, If You Can't Speak The Language?

NOTE: Filipino and Tagalog are used interchangeably within this essay. Filipino is the official national language, and contains an amalgamation of other major Filipino languages, but Tagalog is also a widely considered term to refer to the national language.

"Conyo. Rich kid. Private school. Elitista. Inglisera"

All of these were titles applied to me growing up in the Philippines, simply because I spoke English better than Tagalog. But the question begs to be asked: What does it mean to call yourself Filipino, if you can't speak the language?

For me, it meant growing up in a household whose language was different from mine.

I was raised in a middle-class family, one that had enough to afford the basic necessities and household help, as many families do. In the Philippines, a good education is the key to a good future, so my parents believed that life’s simple luxuries could wait, if it meant my brother and I could study in a private school that taught English well. Being able to speak English was a sign of better opportunities, and my parents made sure we grew up knowing the language as if it were our mother tongue. My childhood memories were littered with people desperately trying to speak English to us, from my parents, my friends within the neighborhood, and of course, the maids who cared for us while our parents worked during the day.

 

Shanice Espiritu and her family in the Philippines

A picture of my family outside our old home. I’m the kid wearing a red hat and blowing a horn, while my brother is being carried by my dad. The kid in the background is my cousin.

As a child I remember conversing with our maids who stuttered in their broken English with tenses that could have made any English teacher shudder. "Shan... do you eating... yung baon (food, or other provisions taken to school) mo?" And I would answer with a fluent, "yes, ate, (older sister in Filipino), I already ate my baon." The maid would then take my lunchboxes upon arrival from school while I started on my assignments, all written in English from the first to the last page.

The difference was clear between those who were blessed in life, and those who served the blessed. As a child, I had no understanding of the divide brought about by the things I merely said. This division, however, was most obvious not with the maids, but with my playmates on the street.

"As a child, I had no understanding of the divide brought about by the things I merely said."

The neighborhood we lived in was as typical as can be, small-scale houses clumped together, 2 floors max. It was here we kids played piko, ice-water, hide-and-seek, dug up "treasures" as pretend archeologists, or literally anything our scrubby little selves could think of. My friends were Gracia, Beverly, David, AJ, Kevin, and sometimes Melissa.

 

A classrom in the PhilippinesOne of my classrooms in De La Salle University. Growing up, there were often signs in elementary and high school saying 'English only.' University challenged me to re-learn Tagalog.

Beverly would fight Melissa because Melissa was a tall, fair-skinned girl with straight jet-black hair, and Beverly was dark-skinned with an apple-cut bob. Melissa would call Beverly "pangit (ugly)," a word I became fairly familiar with, and Beverly would call Melissa "malandi (promiscuous)."

They called each other many names, names that even I as an adult would not have called my foes, hence names I choose to forget. But "malandi" stuck. I always asked Beverly, "what does malandi mean?" but she would never answer, always telling me not to ask my parents. It was late in life when I finally learned what that damned word meant, and what Beverly had been saying under her breath in a childish rage.

Not understanding the language of the streets did not bother me much though, since I spent most of my time in a school that strictly enforced the policy of 'English Only'. Upon arrival in school, one would notice the numerous signs that hinted an entrance to a world divorced from the realities outside. "English speaking zone." "Please speak English inside school premises." "English only please!"

These signs pleaded with the visitor to shake off any other language they know and leave it at the door, except for English. Of course, there were the usual delinquents. Grade 6, 7, and high-school boys who chose to blatantly disregard the rules screamed and laughed at Tagalog phrases and jokes, not knowing that the teachers behind them wrote their names down for punishment at a later time. I, on the other hand, a straight-A student, would not dare whisper a word.

Shanice Espiritu graduating from De La Salle UniversityMe, celebrating my graduation from De La Salle University. Critical experiences in university motivated me to re-learn Filipino.

In fact, I loved English more than Tagalog. I sat in power comfortably as a child who glided through learning English nouns, verbs, conjunctions, and creating worlds through essays while Tagalog took a backseat. I felt there simply was no need to speak and learn this language.

"Would it matter if I was not able to speak to the rest of the population? Would it matter that I could understand Tagalog but not speak it?"

For me, not speaking Tagalog meant being called an Inglisera. The term has been used for anyone who looked Filipino, but spoke like Americans. It was used as a description, but often as a joke. People generally avoided ingliseros and ingliseras. There was also the perpetual "nosebleed.” Filipinos “experience” nosebleeds as an expression because of being unable to process too much English. And of course, who could miss the semi-class shaming that happens, often disguised as jokes, with hints of disdain clear enough to be heard: "Wow, English. Yaman naman. Rich kid."

For me, the labels above were consistently applied throughout my youth.  Not knowing Tagalog meant a divide, as one essay so nicely puts it, between the masses and the ones lucky enough to afford education in another language. But most of all, it meant I was unable to relate with most of the people around me. I was an outsider in my own country.

But most of all, it meant I was unable to relate with most of the people around me. I was an outsider in my own country.

I started feeling like an outsider when I entered college at De La Salle University. Even if the medium of instruction was in English, I was singled out for just knowing English. Professors would switch languages during lectures, and even though I understood both, my inability to articulate thoughts in Tagalog soon proved to be a handicap, especially during presentations.

We visited Cambio & Co.'s partner AKABA and their community of weavers in Ilocos Norte. A photo I took during my visit with Cambio & Co.'s partner AKABA and their weavers in Ilocos Norte. I acted as translator, which helped facilitate communication with the local community.

I took a class called Komunikasyon sa Filipino (Communication in Filipino), and was very discussion-heavy. I struggled from the start, as evidenced by my stutters and constant pauses as my brain failed to summon the right words in front of my classmates and teacher.  “Yung, ano… um, mga hindi… nag-bebelieve sa Diyos… wait, there's a word for it...naniniwala. There, that's the word.” Brief flashbacks of how my yaya (nanny) struggled with English filled my mind as I myself struggled in that moment. More than the shame and embarrassment of being unable to articulate my thoughts, I felt engulfed by a sense of inferiority. 

Was this how a non-speaking Filipino feels when conversing with an Inglisera? Do I make my own fellow Filipinos uncomfortable in their own country?

After that experience and others similar to that, I resolved to re-learn Tagalog. But in my journey to learn my country's language, the lessons I’ve learned go beyond the language itself. I've learned about my culture and what it means to be a Filipino.

Though we can't measure a person's "Filipino-ness" in how well they speak it, there is something inherently important in a knowing the culture's language To know English is to be able to buy from the sidewalk vendor, but to know Tagalog is to be able to understand that he works tirelessly from morning till midnight “para matustusan ang pag-aaral ng kanyang mga anak para sila ay magkaroon ng magandang kinabukasan.” (to support the studies of his children so that they will have a good future.)  

In short, to know the language is to know the people

Today, I am fluent in both English and Tagalog, but of course, I am still more articulate in  English. Not knowing Tagalog does not make me less of a Filipino, but knowing how to speak it gives me a clearer view of this country I live in. This Philippines, with its endless array of languages, all unique in their own, with meanings that, just like English, cannot be encompassed by the Tagalog language alone. If I was given the chance, I would learn as many other Philippine languages as I can to understand my kababayan (fellow countrymen) from all over the country, but as now, re-learning Filipino is just a start.

For me, knowing the Filipino language gives me something to be proud of. It is an identity I share with many other Filipinos, one that makes me distinct from the rest of the world.

But most of all, the language has become a part of me, a means of knowing who I am as an individual, and as a Filipino.




Shanice Espiritu

Author

Shanice wears many hats, but her favorite is being an advocate of Philippine history and culture. She currently works under the National Commission for Culture and the Arts of the Philippines, and is a slow fashion model and photographer on the side. When not being any of those, she loves making lists, playing the piano, and scheming about how to make the world around her a little more colorful.


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3 Responses

Jinni Mabalot Bartolome
Jinni Mabalot Bartolome

July 19, 2018

Interesting, very interesting. I’m American-born and monolingual. There has never been a need for me to know a Filipino language as my parents came here in 1926 and 1931, respectively and my family is working on its fifth generation of Filipino-Americans. I have been the object of scorn because I only know a few words of Filipino, yet that’s easily explainable as my mother was raised in a convent where the language was Castilian Spanish and my dad was from an Ilocano-speaking province. They met here in America and neither returned to the Philippines. I didn’t go there until I was in my 50s and, in total, have spent less than 20 days there in two visits. Thank you, Shanice, for sharing your experience and kudos to you for your successful bilingual endeavors!

Ken Ibarra
Ken Ibarra

July 19, 2018

I enjoyed your article and empathize with you, however in a somewhat different way. I am 100% Filipino, yet my mother and I were born in the US. I grew up speaking English and many elders, actually spoke Spanish. Now 60, I am still asked if I am Filipino and if I speak Tagalog. When I answer that I am Filipino but don’t speak Tagalog because I was born here – many have stated “You’re not really Filipino” I’m proud of my heritage and have visited the homeland of my family, however I am also proud to be American. I would never consider telling a Filipino living here “You’re not really American”

Christian Samar
Christian Samar

July 09, 2018

Shannn! Nice article. I just wish i can edit out the photo with a girl in the background. Hahaha i miss your taglish. Seeyouuuuwhenisseeeyouuu

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